Jackie Ngarande Dzikamai Aiwa Apetwa Muswe

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1) Tyra carefully selected munhu anonatsofita for content yaaiita. A conformist. That was a good pick. 

 

 

 

 

2) The advice was for Tyra. Probably she spoke from a point of understanding her personally. However, you can't speak ill of other women whether in secret or in public. Iyo building material yacho why should it cost sanity yevamwe vakadzi? 

 

3) Marriage is special but to some it's hell. Unogaramo nemuseredzero. Unobhadhara kugaramo nemisodzi. Ukaona munhukadzi ava kuti avakusiya, kazhinji kwacho, pay attention! Kusiya marriage? In which society? Lol

 

 

 

 

 

4) The tears can be judged as trauma response. A lot of people are moving around with bleeding wounds so anything chinotrigger maronda chinomutsa maemotions akasiyana.

 

5) She did not give Tyra time to express herself. When we improve our listening skills, we become better judges of situations. What if Tyra has been putting in the work ega? How much of harm the man has been causing do you know? 

 

6) Single mothers are some of the strongest and most resilient people in society. We raise children alone... How can we not be “blessed” when we are shaping the future? God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers. The blessing of God is not determined by gender or marital status. 

A relationship status does not define anybody's worth. 

 

 

 

 

 

7) Men are responsible for their behavior and character. Pinning the blame on single mothers is an old and tired stereotype. Why shift accountability away from men all the time? Olofesadheni yatova mhosva yemukadzi...ndiye anofanirwa kuva answerable.

 

8 Nherera vanhu vakangofanana nesu. Why kupa varume a weapon against nherera? Some will be mistreated because Jackie achema akaratidza kuti nherera hadzina kwekuenda.

 

As we grow into adulthood, we become sorely responsible for our lives. Upenyu mwene wahwo. If you decide to be useless and use every opportunity or privilege to chase marriage, you'll die frustrated and unfulfilled. At least Tyra has a life of her own.  

 

 

 

 

Haugariri kuti uri nherera, haugariri kuti uchengetwe. It's a shame for an able-bodied person to depend on another to exist njee.

A good marriage is built on trust, respect and partnership...not trauma or societal expectations.

Staying in an abusive marriage is not holiness it’s self-destruction. Abuse is never love and no one should ever encourage someone to stay in a toxic situation.  

Stop glorifying suffering in marriage. Women (and men) deserve safety, love and respect. If someone is in an abusive relationship, leaving is the bravest and healthiest decision they can make.  

 

 

 

 

9) For pastors to even endorse such a message that shames single mothers and divorcees is distasteful. That can't be God’s will. Jesus himself stood up for women and showed them compassion. Any message that shames women or encourages them to stay in abusive marriages is not from God. 

 

10) Obviously some men and pick-mes will support her because they're the gatekeepers of patriarchy. What more would you expect from them? 

 

11) Who told you kuti single mothers lack high moral values? How many married women are committing adultery? How many married women vari kuchengeta varume nemari dzezvikomba? Kana tichiita misikanzwa tinoita just like how other humans fall short. 

 

 

 

 

Since divorce, 11 years ago, my daughter only knows one man. The rest nyangwe ndichizovhurirwa gate ndinotoudza munhu kuti usauya naAbri kugate. Ukatosvika pagate pangu une luck otherwise unomira kunext street uko. 

Vanganiko vanochinjanisa varume pamberi pevana vamunoziva zvamakutipendha tese? Vangani futhi vari married vari kurohwa vana vakatarisa🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

 

 

 

 

How about we become the reason someone feels seen, heard and loved?

At least prank yacho got to reveal mamiriro esociety.

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